Catching up.
This is in regards to Aria's education. I've posted earlier about the incidence where Aria was left alone in a room for over an hour and she wasn't supervised. The teacher walked me into the room and we found Aria there along with another boy. I've been mulling over the whole thing and I actually went to another preschool to put her on the waiting list. We I went last Friday and the director was not in so I went again today after her co-op class. This school was my initial choice but I didn't get in because the waiting list was extremely long and there were only 5 spots opened. Well, they did some remodeling and turned their office into another classroom to accommodate their high demand. The director was really nice. I explained to her what happened to Aria and she told me that it was against the law to not supervise a child. I kinda knew deep down that it was but hearing it from the lips of a professional really made the point stick. The director told me that there were a couple of spots opened but she'll have to see because she has to hold certain spots open for Jan. for the kids that are currently in the mommy & me class. She said she'll call me tomorrow to let me know for sure but she thinks that she can get Aria in for October. That's a week away! I'm glad that she'll be in but now I have to deal with the co-op. If I enroll Aria in the new school, I'll have to break all ties with the co-op. I know alot of people are going to be mad at me for dropping out because I'm entrusted with the Fieldtrip responsibilities and I'm also a working mom on Thursdays.
Aria has ballet on Fridays at the YMCA. I can't say she's progressing greatly but she's progressing. She has separation anxiety so I had to be by her side during the whole class. Thankfully the teacher was very understanding and let me hold Aria's hand during class. I hope that she'll get comfortable enough that she'll let me sit on the sideline and just watch one day. I know as the months progress it's going to be harder and harder to run and keep up with her and her class.
I kinda glazed over it in the last post. But if you didn't get it from reading the last post, here's the big reveal. Here's a picture to back it up.
Once A. came home from work we dicussed the situation with Aria and her school. We both agreed that it was not right for the teacher to leave a toddler alone in a room just because the toddler wants to be left alone, especially for over an hour. Also she didn't even know that another toddler wondered into that room by himself and remained there with Aria. I got more and more mad thinking about it. How would any parent feel if she left her child in the care of a caregiver and that caregiver ignored and forgot about that child? It's just wrong. Now I'm kinda stuck into this situation where I don't feel good about leaving Aria at that school. She's not a routy or active kid so I'm not worried about her getting hurt when she's by herself, but I don't like her being left alone. Heck, she's safer being alone at home than at school. She know she's safe at home. Aria and I are newbies at that school so I don't know what to do. I don't want to cause a rift by saying something to this teacher. She is the only teacher at the school.
When did my little 34 month old girl turn into a mini teenager?!? She walks around with her arm folded, cross at me for something that I do not comprehend, saying "I don't like you anymore" or "it's not fair". What's the deal?? Am I raising a spoiled brat with attitude? I just don't get it. One moment she's as sweet as can be and then like a light switch, she'll flip and get mad at me. She'll remain mad at me for a long time too. Sometimes she'll go into her room and close the door. Augh. Why me... where's my baby girl?? She's mad at me right now and for the life of me, I don't know why. I'm just going to leave her alone.
Not more than an hour into my Aria-free morning, I received a call from her teacher at the preschool telling me that Aria "has been crying and is now being held by a working mom". Agh... she was doing so well last week, I guess week 2 is going to be harder on her than week 1. I went to her school expecting her to be a total mess and found her cuddled up to a working mom. She wasn't crying but she was very relieved to see me. I asked her if she wanted to go home or to stay and she didn't reply so I decided to stay with her in preschool. She was fine afterwards. She even went and played and interacted with the other kids. I thought maybe she was still sick from her cold but I think she just misses me. We had a little talk in the car on the way home and I told her not to cry tomorrow when I leave her at preschool. She said no but then I told her that she will not be receiving a kitten if she does cry and then she said will not cry. Yes, I bribe my daughter. Hey, whatever works. A. better be making plans to get that kitten soon. He's thinking he'll get a kitten for Aria's birthday. I doubt that will happen.
Aria enjoying some strawberry yogurt. She actually didn't like it very much but I thought I'll give it a try since all her classmates seem to love the stuff. She played with it for a long time, gagged on it after one big bite and that was the end of that.
I caught Aria's cold and now I'm not feeling so great. Aria, on the other hand, is back to her happy self and is currently in preschool. Yeah, I got the morning to myself to veg. I'm going to be consuming a large amount of O.J.
Aria's sick today with a pretty hasty head cold. She's got a runny nose and I think her throat hurts her a little. I knew she was coming down with something when she had a really hard time falling asleep last night from a stuffy nose. I think we caught it at one of the parties from this weekend. Lord knews Chuck E. Cheese's is not the cleanest place for a kid. A. told me not to take her to school today so we stayed home. She's being extremely cranky and is currently crying her eyes out after napping for an hour. I am so close to having a meltdown because my little girl is driving me up the walls. Help. Please.
I took a nap as soon as we got home and we were out the door again for a 3 PM party at Chuck E. Cheese's. It was for a three years old girl named Valeria. I never liked Chuck E. Cheese's on the weekend and I find that birthday parties there are even more hellish. It was crowded and loud. It's just not the appropriate place to hold a 3 years old's party. The birthday girl was scared of the the mouse and the noise most of the time. I got a headache after a half an hour of play. Thankfully A. was there to watch Aria. She seemed to like the place. I must be getting old. I need naps and quiet time.
Aria with the birthday girl Valeria.
Aria with Cassidy.
We left around 5 and headed over to Soupplantation for dinner with A.'s uncle, aunt and their 22 years old daughter. We wanted to take them out to dinner for the longest time be we always end up fighting over the bill (their old school chinese who wants to pay all the time). We were sneaky enough where we finally ended up paying. Their daughter is extremely bright and well adjusted. She's going to attend Harvard Law but is taking the year off to become a fellow at at National Bank in Washington D.C. I admire how A.'s aunt was able to raise such a smart and kind daughter and I've joked with her many times to take Aria, raise her and bring her back when she's 17 so she can turn out just like her daughter Leslie.
I just booked an indoor playground for Aria's upcoming 3rd birthday in November. The credit card has been charged so there's no turning back. We had her birthday at our house last year and I don't want to do that again. It was pretty stressful throwing it at home because I was always worrying that one of the kids would get hurt by running into a rose bush or that they'll fall down the three steps leading to the house. This year we're going to have her party at Playsource. I'm surprised by how far in advance people book their parties. I got the only slot left on that day and I'm doing it 2 months in advance. We ended up with the 5:30 - 7:30 PM slot. It seems alittle late but oh well, the kids can party and go home and crash for the night. I'm still undecided on which party package to go with yet because I don't know how much work I want to put into it. I guess it all depends on how many kids will attend. I've got a list for over 25 kids if everyone attends but I doubt that'll happen. Let just hope enough kids come so Aria has a good party.
See how happy she was?? I'm very relieved that she did fine today. It's a great way to start a new school year.
Aria just finished her first day at her co-op preschool. I have to say that she did better than I thought she would even though I wasn't able to leave her there by herself. The hardest was the first 30-45 mins of school when they had free play and arts & craft. It was an unstructed block of time where Aria can pick what she wants to do. That gave her too much free time to look for me for guidance and when she didn't spot me she started crying. Once they switched activity and went into circle time she was fairing better. I think I could have left her than but decided to stay with her through her first day at preschool. Tomorrow's a different story. I plan on staying maybe for 15 mins. just to see her situated and then I'm outta there. Target here I come! (kidding, just kidding.)
Here's Aria looking lost and lonely. She didn't know where to begin.
Aria found her cubicle. It contained her lunch bag. Too bad it's all the way on the top roll and she's so short. She's going to need help getting her bag when I'm not around. I should bring an extra set of clothing for her just in case she has an accident.
Here's Aria having a meltdown when she thought I left.
Aria during circle time. She did her job and sat on a lettered mat and listened (for the most part).
Aria's doing the Pledge Of Allegiance. She actually kept her right hand over her heart.
During snacktime. They served pita bread, cheese, turkey and juice today.
Here's Aria outside making a painting. She painted me a white turtle.
A. came home tonight and asked her how her day at preschool went and this is what she said:
A.: how was school today, Aria?
Aria: I cried and cried and cried because Mommy was going to leave me.
Ahh... she said the sweetest things sometimes.
It's 2:30 AM on a Monday morning right now and I can't seem to fall back to sleep. We all went to bed extra early at 10:06PM Sunday night so that Aria can be decently rested when she wakes up today at 8:30 AM for school. We were suppose to get her to go to sleep earlier all summer in anticipation of school for Fall but that fell through because we're night owls and Aria is no exception. I can't believe summer is over and school has started. My little girl will be starting her Co-op preschool on Tues., which runs through Friday and she's going to attend a Mommie & Me class on Mondays. Yeap, Aria will have class 5 days a week. That's not including 2 dance classes and swimming sprinkled throughout the week. I'm tired just thinking about it.
I've been looking for a Halloweenie costume for Aria. Not just any costume but a specific one because Aria already knows what she wants to be. I know it's a little early still but I think I should get started on the search or I'll surcome to defeat. All previous Halloweens I was the one who decided on what she should wear because she was too young to tell me otherwise. Both years, I dressed her up as a white bunny (2 different costumes, I have a thing for bunnies). Well this year, Aria wants to be The Little Mermaid. I've been looking online and it seems like most of the mermaid costumes that I find at least $40.00, ouch. What happened to the good old days when I can get a great costume for less than $20???
Wow, I captured her laughing and looking at the camera at the same time. Miracle.
Oh, I did it again.
I babysat for a mom today. Her son Garrett is around 15 months old. She dropped him off around 10 this morning and he stayed for a couple of hours. I have to say, he was the easiest baby I ever sat with. He didn't cry once and he was very mellow and he said was 'mmm' and ate his snack.
Here's Aria watching Garrett to make sure he doesn't mess with anything in her room. I can't see how he can mess anything up, my little girl did a great job already. It's not a very clean room right now. Some one needs to learn to clean her room. Yeah, I know she's got a lot of toys. It's because I had so little growing up. I'm living vicariously through her.
I know I haven't mention this but we joined the YMCA last Sat. because the place we usually go to swim was closed. We've been considering the Y for a while now and we caved on Sat. We were all lotioned up and ready to swim and were devastated to find the gate to to the outdoor pool chained up so we headed 10 mins west to the YMCA. Bummer, we knew this day would eventually happen because one can only swim in an outdoor pool for so many months before the temperature drops and were freezing our toosies off. The prices at the Y were not bad - $100 initial signup fee and $65 per month for the whole family. I wanted to sign Aria up for swimming ASAP but we missed the Sept. enrollment deadline by a week. I was able to sign her up for tap class.
'Can't you see I'm busy?'
On Sunday, we went to A.'s parents' house in the early evening. His brother, sister-in-law and the two nieces also showed up. We all headed out to a new Japanese restaurant nearby for dinner. The food was awesome. Too bad I forgot the name. I definitely want to go there again. It got Aria's approval too because she ate 3 whole shrimp tempuras. I've never seen her eat so much and with such gusto. Aria's a really picky eater so it was a surprise to see her eat 1 let alone 3 shrimp tempuras.
Aria's on her grandma's vibrating excercising machine. I guess it's suppose to jiggle the fat off.
On Monday morning, we met up with A.'s brother, sister-in-law and the two nieces at a local hiking trail so the kids can play since they didn't get a chance last night. I thought we were meeting at a park so stupid-me had on flip-flops, not the best footwear for a hike. The kids really enjoyed the hike. Aria followed Bella around like a little puppy. She plays so much better with older kids. At one point, Bella captured a tiny lizard and Aria was brave enough to touch it.
We hiked for about an hour and decided to head home because of the heat. I was really suffering inside but I didn't complain once. Aria was a trooper she toughed it out until we were back in the car and the she let us know that she was not comfortable and she wanted home.
We had plans of attending a friend's (Kathleen from previous post) B.B.Q. today but she cancelled because of family reasons. A. and I decided to have our own B.B.Q. instead. We tried inviting people over but I guess everyone had plans because no one said 'yes'. It all worked out. We ended up not having to clean house. We grilled 2 types of pork, a slab of beef ribs, veggies, potatoes and shrimp. Everything was delicious and the best part is we had leftovers for tomorrow so I don't have to cook. Yeah!
This is Bella, the older niece and Aria's cousin. She's 5 and very adorable. She's holding a tiny lizard that she just found.
This is Layla, the younger niece. She's around 15 months old. Big girl but very cute.
Aria found a dead beetle in the backyard today and was proudly showing it off. It was HUGE. I did not touch it.